SOLACE OF LOVE: Do you feel broken?

I could recognize that feelings, feeling of being broken. The feelings that has overthrown a friend, caused him to be running out of words. It is one the highest feelings in spectrum of love.

Unfortunately, his situation made me realize that the best part of love is the thinnest slice, it doesn't cares for much. He came to this sadden junction because he was lost in love and he didn't know much because he was thinking aloud and he fell out of touch.

He is trying to do everything possible to get over this feelings, he tried to read, he tried to go to work, he laughed with friends, and took selfies of himself smiling, but all these couldn't stop him thinking of what went wrong.



Now, he is sitting in the dark with so many why's. His tears are ignored, his cries could not be heard. Did I dig too deep? and some couple of other questions remained rhetorical for him. He is searching for a reason behind the capsized ship of love but the best advice I could give as a good friend was for him to stop looking at the cup to be half empty and open up his eyes to the reason for him not to lose his soul over love.

He feels broken...

We all need a little peace, he has tried everything to save his love, it's not that he's not the right person but it is better to let his feelings come back home than to be wandering around in his head.

 Sometimes it will feel you want to go back again, but it doesn't always work like that. So, pack your bags with all the lives you've been before and leave behind what you don't want no more.

Memories about the days you had together, the days you made her happy with different gift, the days you talked sweet words over nice food at different dates, the days when she always found her comfort in your arms to sleep just like a baby, the days your friends got jealous of your explosive display of love and the days you spent hours talking on phone when you were not together. All these memories will soon come to wreck its havoc on your feelings like deadly hurricane, feelings that will make you feel like a butt of jokes to your friends, feelings that will make you feel so empty, but time will heal everything, or more appropriately, it will make you get used to it.

Do you feel broken?  Don't be!

This suppose to turn you to be a strong man rather than a villain heartbroken person. You just have to believe that there is nothing you can do to change the past. Let your river keep flowing, the dirt will be washed away soon enough. You have to keep on moving, keep on hoping for another trial, but this time, you have known that if you lose and fail, you will be fine. You are now becoming stronger, you can make a change on your own, you have lost your way and you are about to find another road.

Don't be broken, those days were gone, you can be who you want to be and start living your life for yourself, because that's only who you can believe in. You fought a good fight but this is time to move on to the brighter dawn. Keep on moving, nothing is going to break you down again and you can make it right.


Olagunju Oluwaponmile F.
(aka) Mr_Folap