5 Ways To Stop Feeling Insecure In Your Relationships

1.  Stop trying to read minds.

Most relationship problems and associated social anxieties start with bad communication, which in turn leads to attempted mind reading.  Mind reading occurs when two people assume that they know what the other is thinking when they don’t.  This process of wondering and trying to guess what someone is thinking is a rapid route to feelings of insecurity and stress.

If someone says one thing, don’t assume they mean something else.  If they say nothing at all, don’t assume their silence has some hidden, negative connotation.  Likewise, don’t make the people in your life try to read your mind.  Say what you mean and mean what you say.  Give the people in your life the information they need, rather than expecting them to know the unknowable.

It’s also important to remember that you aren’t suppose to know every little thing going on in the minds of others, even the people closest to you.  When you stop trying to read their minds, you really begin to respect their right to privacy.  Everyone deserves the right to think private thoughts.  Constantly asking, “What are you thinking?” can provoke a person to withdraw from a relationship to find space. 

3 Hard Things You Need To Do To Be Happy

You have to do things that are hard to be happy in life. those things no one as ever done. The things that are hard for you. The things others people can’t do for you. The things that make you think and question how much longer you can hold on and push forward to do it. Why? Because those are the things that define who you are. Those are the things that make the difference between existing and living things – between knowing the path to go and walking the path – between a life of mediocrity and a life filled with happiness and success.

Of course, the hard things in life are often the easiest things to avoid. To procrastinate. To make excuses. To pretend like they somehow don’t apply to you and your life situation.
But reality always rears its head in the end. And the truth about how ordinary people achieve immense happiness and incredible feats of success is that they step out of their comfort zones and do the hard things that their more educated, affluent and qualified counterparts don’t have the courage, drive or determination to do.

Here are 3 Hard Things You Need to Do to Be Happy in life:

3 Things You Should Insist On No Matter What People Say

About 15 years ago, I had an intervention with myself. I sat down at the local library on a Saturday morning and read through hundreds of archived entries in my journal. Specifically, I was looking for all the unfulfilled goals and visions for the future that I had jotted down over the years. And it didn’t take long before I realized that the entire course my life had taken up to that point had been the product of other people’s opinions and decisions. Every day I was just going through the motions, and doing what I was “supposed” to do, instead of what was right for ME.

Fast forward to today, and as I awoke this morning, I marveled at my life. Where once I woke with dread at the thought of a new day, now I wake with excitement to begin – grateful to be doing what I’m doing with my life. I’m so happy I did what I had to do, and struggled through the tough times and fears, and realigned myself with the activities and ideals that make me feel alive.

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Can You Really Satisfy A lady? This Lady Need A S*x Partner

I am Brenda and I need someone to satisfy my s*xual urge, I live in Lagos and I am 28 years old. I am married and s*x-starved, if you know you are good then contact the admin and he will give you my contact details. 

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There are, however, a few hints that almost all girls gives either unintentionally that signal you aren’t really aren’t doing it for us or to us in the right way.

12 Things Your Partner Would Love To Hear

There are things your partner needs to hear you say on a consistent basis in order to feel deeply loved. Some of which they know about, and some of them, they don’t. Communication is key in intimate relationships and it helps to be intentional about telling your partner what they need to hear from you.

Behold! A concise reminder of things that your partner would love to hear, and hear often. Focus on bringing these tips into your relationship and see your partner open up like never before...